Showing posts with label Choices. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Choices. Show all posts

Saturday, April 05, 2025

Bookstore Dilemma

Bookstore Dilemma

Barnes and Noble
bookstore browsed—
        the smell of new books
    and coffee brewed,
tasty poetry books to peruse.

Poetry books
        on fifteen shelves:
which one? which one?
My wallet wants to force a choice:
    just one! just one!

Louise Gluck or Santoka Taneda
    which one? which one?
Hungry to meet and hear from them;
        [ignoring my wallet's advice]
    I bought Both!
Books are alive and talk repeatedly.


25 Steps and Beyond: Collected Works

US Highway 101 and Hwy 1

US Highway 99 and Interstate 5

Cuttings: Haiku, Short Verses, Epigrams

The Gushen Grove Sonnets

Stepping Over Epiphanies

Bundled Up: Tanka Poems

Above the Fog

Daodejing: Indexes, Concordance, Anthology

A Fork in the Crypto Road

Thursday, September 21, 2023

Downturns of the Soul

I finished reading "The Existentialist's Survival Guide" (How to Live Authentically in an Inauthentic Age) by Gordon Marino, PhD, 2018. It delves into the lives' of persons who are sad, moody, discontented, anxious, depressed, despairing, guilty, self-hating, fearing death, sorrowful ... and how they might bravely deal with these darker conditions according to various Existentialists, especially the Christian apologist, Soren Kierkegaard.  These Existentialists are typically quite critical of comfortable contentment, bourgeois conformity, and ordinary "happiness." Mr. Marino is knowledgeable, a skilled writer, down-to-earth, and offers numerous good insights into these themes. 


"After a public fray with a popular newspaper, Kierkegaard, an inveterate walker, would be stalked by Copenhagen street urchins, teasingly yelling at him "Enten/Eller"---Either/Or. Either faith or unbelief.  According to Kierkegaard, the choice between the sacred and the profane is not one that reason can make.  Put another way, if you put all your faith in reason, you have made your choice.  Conversely, where faith is concerned, it involves a terrible clash.  This is the proverbial fallen tree on the path Kierkegaard repeatedly stresses."  - Gordon Marino, p. 237


"In Kierkegaard's time and much more so in our own, there is a tendency to reduce religion to either a gauzy form of spirituality or to something akin to philosophy for dummies --- good, uplifting, and yet untenable stories that would be better served by science and argument."
- Gordon Marino, p. 238


"The Sea of Faith
Was once, too, at the full, and round earth's shore
Lay like the folds of a bright girdle furl'd.
But now I only hear
Its melancholy, long, withdrawing roar,
Retreating, to the breath
Of the night-wind, down the vast edges drear
And naked shingles of the world."
- Matthew Arnold, "Dover Beach,"  

Sincerity and Authenticity by Lionel Trilling

How to Live a Good Life: Advice From Wise and Respected Persons

Virtue Ethics






Monday, January 02, 2023

Do You Wanna To Be Normal?

 "See that nine to five

She's alive but she'll never see
She's lost in what she does
Just because of what she has to be
Time just passes by
She don't try
She just carries on
Her dreams are only dreams in the night
Come the light, they're gone

Trapped into spaces where we no longer breathe
Pushed into places that we really don't wanna be
We only got a short time to grab a little glory
I wanna have a good life, not a sad story
To stay within the boundaries, seems so formal
If that's what life is, I don't wanna be normal
No...

Chances that we take become mistakes that I could rather flee
I don't see how I could live my life any other way
The best and the worst of us often times stumble and fall
We're trapped by the choices that we make
We just can't know it all

We only got a short time to grab a little glory
I wanna have a good life, not a sad story
To stay within the boundaries, seems so formal
If that's what life is, I don't wanna be normal
I don't wanna be...I don't wanna be normal"

- Randy Crawford, 1986, Don't Wanna Be Normal





On Not Resisting Temptations
By Mike Garofalo

Test, try, experiment - within reason.
Manage your pleasures and desires.
Be open to thinking and feeling in new ways.
Sometimes ignore what other people tell you to do or not to do.
Old values are not necessarily better values.
What is "bad" in one generation may be "good" in later times.
Enjoy the pleasure of eating apples.
When someone tells you not to ask, sometimes ask and ask again.
With only one life to live - be bolder.
Don't resist the temptation to improve, to change, to grow.
Like water, enjoy going downhill in new directions.
Embrace intellectual pleasures.
Be suspicious of people who talk too much about guilt and punishment.
Some failures are inevitable, just get up and move on.
Thinking and doing are often more advantageous than believing.
Many people associate sexual pleasure with 'sinfulness': nonsense.
Succumb to temptations to laugh more often.
If you can't take advantage of temptations then you are not free.
Remember what works for you.
When your tempted to be compassionate, act on the impulse.
- Mike Garofalo, Pulling Onions



"Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation? I tell you that there are terrible temptations which it requires strength, strength and courage to yield to."
- Oscar Wilde

"The trouble with resisting temptation is it may never come your way again."
- Korman's Law

"For every man there exists a bait which he cannot resist swallowing."
- Friedrich Nietzsche

"If we resist our passions, it is more because of their weakness than because of our strength."
- François, duc de La Rochefoucauld


"Most people want to be delivered from temptation but would like it to keep in touch."
- Robert Orben

"What makes resisting temptation difficult for many people is they don't want to discourage it completely."
- Franklin P. Jones

"The difficulty lies not so much in developing new ideas as in escaping from old ones."
- John Maynard Keynes


"If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down."
- Mary Pickford

"The most useless are those who never change through the years."
- James Barrie





Willpower, Resolve, Determination, Progress


Tuesday, June 07, 2022

Try to Build It


"The only sensible goal, then, is to try to build a reality-tunnel for next week that is bigger, funnier, sexier, more optimistic and generally less boring that any previous reality-tunnel.  And once you have built that bigger, funnier, happier universe of thought, build a bigger and better one, for next month."
-  Robert Anton Wilson,  Prometheus Rising,  p. 226, 1983



Friday, February 18, 2022

What Will Your Verse Be?

"O me, O life of the questions of these recurring. 
Of the endless trains of the faithless.  
Of cities filled with the foolish.
What good amid these, O me, O life?

Answer: that you are here.
That life exists and identity.
That the powerful play goes on,
and you may contribute a verse.

What will your verse be."

Attributed to Walt Whitman in Zen Camera





A young family of four enjoying the winter day at
Cape Lookout State Park creek and beach.
What verses will they contribute to the living poem
of just two generations?
Telephoto intimacy.



Saturday, June 20, 2020

On Not Resisting Temptations



Test, try, experiment - within reason.
Manage your pleasures and desires.
Be open to thinking and feeling in new ways.
Sometimes ignore what other people tell you to do or not to do.
Old values are not necessarily better values.
What is "bad" in one generation may be "good" in later times.
Enjoy the pleasure of eating apples.
When someone tells you not to ask, sometimes ask and ask again.
With only one life to live - be bolder.
Don't resist the temptation to improve, to change, to grow.
Like water, enjoy going downhill in new directions.
Embrace intellectual pleasures.
Be suspicious of people who talk too much about guilt and punishment.
Some failures are inevitable, just get up and move on.
Thinking and doing are often more advantageous than believing.
Many people associate sexual pleasure with 'sinfulness': nonsense.
Succumb to temptations to laugh more often.
If you can't take advantage of temptations then you are not free.
Remember what works for you.
When your tempted to be compassionate, act on the impulse.
- Mike Garofalo, Pulling Onions



"Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation? I tell you that there are terrible temptations which it requires strength, strength and courage to yield to."
- Oscar Wilde

"The trouble with resisting temptation is it may never come your way again."
- Korman's Law

"For every man there exists a bait which he cannot resist swallowing."
- Friedrich Nietzsche

"If we resist our passions, it is more because of their weakness than because of our strength."
- François, duc de La Rochefoucauld


"Most people want to be delivered from temptation but would like it to keep in touch."
- Robert Orben

"What makes resisting temptation difficult for many people is they don't want to discourage it completely."
- Franklin P. Jones

"The difficulty lies not so much in developing new ideas as in escaping from old ones."
- John Maynard Keynes


"If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down."
- Mary Pickford

"The most useless are those who never change through the years."
- James Barrie





Willpower, Resolve, Determination, Progress